How to warm up a marriage…

For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.  ~ Ephesians 5:29 (emphasis added)   synonyms for cherish: appreciate, love, prize, treasure, value Greek definition: to keep warm (ie. by nourishing and nurturing truth)  When I did the research on this topic, I felt two things: […]


Are you teachable?

Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless — like water. Now you put water in a cup, it becomes the cup; You put water into a bottle it becomes the bottle; You put it in a teapot it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend. Bruce Lee If knowledge is power, then Bruce Lee’s quote represents (to […]

Pain of Passivity & Power of Purpose – Part 3

Part 2 When we take out the trash and change the channel, we can… 3rd – Move Forward  A marriage moving forward with purpose is not stepping backward in fear (the dominant trait of passivity).  I love this quotes from the movie First Knight. King Arthur (Connery) asks Lancelot (Gere) how he was able, unlike others, to […]